Each generation is trying to do a better job of raising the generation that will follow it. We can’t help it, we are genetically programmed that way. The thing is, sometimes the choices we make, despite our best efforts and well-wishes, are the wrong ones and our only way of knowing that is in hindsight. This is exactly what inspired this article.
The way we were raised is unbelievably different from the way our parents were raised, and their parents before that. Here are a few practices that used to be normal a few decades ago but will now result anywhere on the scale of raised eyebrows to a call to child services.
Shabby Safety Belts and Car Seats
Today strapping in is like second nature. Our arms immediately reach for the seat belt and we buckle-in without a moment’s thought. In fact, now, you could consider us well trained when it comes to car safety. Sadly, this wasn’t always the case.
Back then kids would be flung to the back seat without any protective means. If you were an infant, you might have gotten a ride on mom’s lap. We’re not sure which is worse.
Childproofing Was Unheard of
The kids of today have it pretty cushy. There are many things in place, such as certain kinds of latches or childproof medicine bottle caps that prevent kids and especially infants from getting hurt.
Back then, if a baby wanted to play with the goods around the house, they were going to do it. Electrical sockets were there to play with until their heart’s content. We suppose you could say it toughened them up a bit.
Girl Toys and Boy Toys
Toys back then were very strictly defined by genders. Everything blue or red that could shoot stuff, fight or move fast was for the boys and anything pink and soft was for the girls.
If a boy was caught playing with a doll, it wouldn’t have been so pleasant. Of course, there are still hang-ups as to which goes to who, but now there are certainly many toys that are for all kids.
Fire Hydrant Showers
This was popular in urban areas and large cities. In fact, it was almost like the official policy that during the summertime, fire hydrants would be opened to blast sweaty kids after playing in the streets.
If city officials didn’t do it, then parents or an older sibling would surely do it. This way, all the neighborhood kids could get a spritz of water to cool them down. While it sounds like fun, as you might have guessed, that water wasn’t always the best quality.
Walking To School
Unless you live in an incredibly safe area, it’s unlikely that you will let your kid walk to school in this day and age – especially if they’re in the first grade. Of course, it was a different time then and it was far more normal to let the kids run free.
Though it wasn’t all bad, generally it was the older sibling or one of the older kids in the neighborhood that would accompany the kids to school. Think of it more like a ‘boomer carpool’.
Family Talks
In those days, the kids were with the kids, and the adults, with the adults. While parents certainly cared deeply for their children, deep discussions and conversations about feelings were not for the public domain.
Today, of course, there is a strong culture of parents engaging with their kids, some even argue, too much. Maybe we still have not struck the balance
Drinking from Water Garden Hoses
Bottled water was not really a thing until a couple of decades later. You would just drink from the tap, and in the summer, kids, after running around the yard for a while, had no shame in taking a sip from the garden hose.
No one ever thought that water from garden hoses was unregulated and potentially unsafe. This was totally normal. The hose was a fixture of summertime fun, with kids running in and out of sprinklers.
Latchkey Kids Were Common
The ’60s, a time where mothers suddenly started entering the workplace. While this is normal now, many systems have been set up to accommodate kids with busy parents. Then, not so much.
If a kid could stay outside all day without supervision, then they could definitely do it indoors. They would come home after school to an empty house and prepare themselves a TV dinner. Luckily, sometimes there was an older sibling to pick up the slack
Spanking
If you misbehaved as a kid, it was simple. Out came the hand, or occasionally even worse, the belt. It’s a good thing that most times kids were way out of their parents’ sight for most of the day, but when they were with their folks, there was serious discipline.
The kind of physical punishment that went on those days would cause some serious eyebrow-raising today. In some cases, even a phone call to child services. Yep, things have changed, thankfully!
Lead Galore
Lead paint was used on everything. Which is strange, since it was published as far back as 1904 that lead is highly poisonous in large quantities for both workmen and all inhabitants of a home.
Fortunately now, the legal amount of lead is no more than 0.06% concentration. Just think of everyone breathing that in, not just kids!
Kids Outside Unsupervised
When there were no video games, phones, computers, or ipads, kids had to seek fun in the world outside. And that’s exactly what they did… all… the…time. Once a kid was let outside to play with their friends, parents wouldn’t see them until dinner time.
Safety just didn’t seem like a concern. Not because they didn’t care about their kids, but because people felt that neighborhoods were safe back then. Kids were also mostly in groups or with older siblings so it seemed totally normal.
Community Parenting
With all the ‘hands-on’ parenting of today, no one would accept someone else telling them how to raise their kids. But in the ’60s, parents from the community or neighborhood would have no issue disciplining someone else’s child if necessary.
It was extremely common to see other kids’ parents giving a little mischief-maker a good yelling, sometimes even a spanking. If that happened today, people would very quickly find themselves in a lawsuit.
The Chemistry Sets Were Not Okay
It’s always great when kids test out scientific experiments, but what isn’t okay is when these experiments can lead to super hazardous explosions. Like in the case of these old Gilbert Chemistry Sets.
These sets contained terribly flammable chemicals like ammonium nitrate – a chemical used in the creation of homemade bombs and potassium permanganate. Not so smart.
Cycling Without Helmets
Kids were certainly not driven around by their mothers and fathers in the ’60s. They either had to walk or cycle, and cycling was the popular choice for sure. Just about every father taught their kid how to ride a bicycle. If they fell and scraped their knees, too bad.
If they fell on their heads, you guessed it, they had to suck it up too. Helmets became popularised much later, in fact, if you were seen with a helmet, you were probably a giant dork.
